My new chair

Today I dragged Chris and Zara off to the baby expo held at the Dome.... Our main purpose was to find Zara a high chair..... Chris was actually a lot more patient than I expected and in the pursuit of the "perfect" high chair we landed up buying: baby ladybug sunnies, a babygro, bendy spoons and forks as well as the high chair.

According to the assembly instructions, it would only take an adult 30mins to assemble.... ;~)

so we wont tell you exactly how long it actually took but the end result was great and Zara was so chuffed to have her very own chair! Later that evening, we had a good test run with Zara enjoying fresh mango slices, cucumber and banana for supper.

just in case

This afternoon I went in to check on Zara during her nap to find her with one dummy in her mouth and the other in her hand...... lucky for her there was a second one just in case?

As you will see in the photo, she also loves to have one hand hanging out of her cot....

Voila - now I can sit!

As you can see, Zara is now sitting so nicely! This has certainly given her a new perspective on life. She is so pleased with herself as I am sure you can see in the pictures....

Finally, she can now play with her friends - as seen in the picture above with Zach. Zach has been sitting for 2 months already so this is old hat to him..... he is so confident in his sitting that he kept leaning forward to Zara and grabbing her head. In true girl style, she merely sat there fluttering her eyelids at him. Sad to say though... Zach beware, girls start plotting their revenge from an EARLY age.....

Seven Months Old!

Today is Zara's 7 month birthday!

This morning when I went to pick her up from her morning nap, she had her dog pulled over her face - clearly she didn't want to be disturbed and was just loving her dog - Thank you GrannyAnnie - so with just time for a photo before bumps and babes, Mum just couldn't resist!

I had Zara weighed today. She has certainly had a massive growth spurt since our six mth check at the Paed....

6 mths 7 mths

6.480kg 7.025kg

64cm 71cm

...that's a whopping 500g plus 7cm! No wonder I have been so exhausted... ;~)

Big Girl Food

Zara is now 6 and half months old... where has the time gone? We have decided to slowly start introducing her to the world of solids - up until now she has been lucky enough to be exclusively breast-fed and according to her Paed, between now and 12months is the time to slowly start introducing different textures. According to her, everything babies need nutritionally is in their breast milk/formula until 12months old. She recommends only fruit and veg until 12 months and says what they get from the fruit and veg is purely a start into the world of new textures, shapes and colours to their diet. In the case of formula babies, they get introduced to new flavours too. I have read about a "new technique" called Baby Led Weaning. The basic principles are to give them food in the original state and not always mashed up, this is reported to help the transition to solids - so I guess there is no harm in trying it out.....

I had hoped that Zara would be sitting on her own properly before starting her on solids but she is ready for her grub so whats a week or two before she sits "properly" in the greater scheme of things?

So, first things first.... our introduction in to real food was a with taste of Avo. Now because this is decidedly slippery I did have to mash it a little it and then fed it Zara using my fingers. I must admit I was also a little nervous about choking hazards but with only two teeth, it is amazing how well she manages to suck, shred and "chew" on the sticks of food in order to eat them... Other foods I have offered are cucumber sticks, dried mango, celery sticks, hummus.... so far so good. She certainly appears to be ready and smacks her lips together when she is offered her food (there has also been a bit of shouting when I have "selfishly" not offered her something from my plate).

Learning to sit

I think the pictures tell it all..... but whether it in a box or on Mum's lap, at the moment Zara is able to balance - un-supported - for about 10-20 seconds but then with all the concentration needed and the short attention span of a six month old soon enough she ends in a topple to the side. I have no doubt that within the next week or two Zara will have mastered the art, thus reaching a major milestone in her development - you go Girl!!!

The Atkinson Cousins

Tonight is Sue's last night in SA - so we all had supper together at our place. When it was time to bath Zara, Gareth and Emma were eager to join in..... before we knew it Meg was in the bath too and all the junir Atkinson were having a whale of a time splashing about!

Visit to Dr Lucic

Today we went for our routine 6 month visit with our Paediatrician - Dr Lucic

As expected, all is well and Zara is growing nicely. She commented on how responsive and happy, always smiling, Zara is! Chris was a little worried that Zara is too small but weighing in at 6.480kg, 64cm tall, she said that Zara is "petite", registering on the 25th percentile. Her hernisted belly-button is fixing itself nicely too.

She says although she is slightly petite, she is perfectly symmetrical and doing everything a baby her age should be doing! Well done Zara!!! Who would have thought, that just this time last year, your 12 week scan results gave us a completely different idea on how you would be....

All the way from America

Hard times can also bring good times.... Sue has decided to come out from America to see Graham & Heather! Although the circumstances are not the greatest we are all so pleased we will get to see her. More importantly though is, that Zara will finally get to meet her "Aunt Suzie"! All this, on her SIX month birthday!!!

As if seeing Sue is not a spoiling enough, Zara has been given the most wonderful clothes from America - she certainly looks set to be a well dressed babe this winter - Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

So, the plan is for Sue to spend a night or 2 in Jozi. I will then drive her down to Hilton for a week. While Sue spends time with her folks, Zara and I will go on to Durban to see my family. Chris will then join us in Durbs, we'll go up to Hilton for 2 nights and then bring Sue back to Jozi to see the rest of the family.

While in Hilton, one of the most important things "Aunt Suzie" has been teaching Zara is : "we don't eat books, we read books" It has been amazing to see, at this age its an automatic reaction for a child to put everything in the mouth. But soon enough it seemed that Zara was certainly getting the message and she stopped trying to grab the books to her mouth all the time. It is now up to us to keep reminding her...."we don't eat books, we read books" and with all her family being such avid readers we hope she will come to love reading and respect her books as we all do.

Riley and Zara

Riley really seems to have taken to Zara during our latest visit to Durban. She even wanted to hold her... very short and sweet but a cuddle and then off to play again. We look forward to when they can really start playing together.....

Baby Art Moulds

While I was still pregnant, I spotted these baby mould kits at Toys r Us in Sandton. The two kits on offer where for a belly mask and then for a foot/hand cast. We looked for the foot/hand kit in Durban over Christmas with no luck - now with Zara's 6 month birthday pending, I thought it would be nice to make a cast / mould of her hand and foot as a keepsake at this "milestone" in her life. Off I went to the branch where I had originally seen the kits and as my luck would have it - no longer in stock!!! As you know, I don't give up that easily and after a bit of a hunt I managed to get hold of the supplier and she delivered a kit to me. The next curve ball was knowing how "unhandy" Chris can be but my back up plan was up coming trip to Durban and I knew Mark would be a great help to me....

So, on Saturday morning I got the men involved and we started the procedure. Everyone was rather sceptical as to how this would/could/should work.... I must say the instructions were not the easiest to follow but with a bit of patience, perseverance and delicate concentration, we managed to get a perfect foot and hand mould. Now it was time to see if this would really work - mix the plaster of paris, pour it into the moulds and wait for it to set....

We assume that the mould is the same mixture dentists use to make a cast of our teeth. Chris and I were too nervous to break the mould away from the cast so we left the delicate procedure to Mark's steady hand. The combination of the mould and plastir of paris has given every detail, wrinkle and crease in the casts....AGH SWEET MAN!!!! All I need to do now, is find a way to frame these for Zara - Thank you Markie!!

With the Parnells

Today we went out to Umhlali to see the Parnells.... We had a lovely lunch together and then all the "girls" went into Ballito for some "retail therapy" The kids were all too keen to push Zara around .... Crystin was dressed to the nines and certainly looked like a mini yummy mummy. When we got home it took a bit of persuading but we managed to get all the (present) cousins together in 1 photo - obviously we missed Riley v G and the Londoners.... but PERHAPS at Christmas time????

See how we "Gru - Some"

While we have been down in Durban it was super to see Kelly, Riley, Lauren and Rebekah again..

We took this photo of the kids, to match the last one we took a couple of months ago...it took a bit of co-ordinating to get them all away at the same time but we had to get the cameras clicking.

Zara is now 6 months old while Riley and Rebekah are 4 months old.

My goodness time is certainly flying by and the babies are growing SOOOO fast.

My First Easter

Zara's first Easter weekend was spent in a rather chilly Wakkerstroom. We left at about lunchtime on Friday - to try miss the bulk of the holiday traffic - and to coincide with Zara's "long sleep". She was as good as gold - despite the hold up on the road due to road works, resulting in an extra 30-40mins in the car. Shortly after arriving, unpacking and lighting the fire, we went for a walk.... all around the area there are huge fields of cosmos which looked absolutely beautiful. I have never seen so much cosmos before and as cosmos always reminds me of Easter this was truly fitting for the Easter weekend. On Saturday we went into the village for the Easter Festival - the town was buzzing with visitors, we even bumped into some Jozi people we know..... On Sunday, the Easter bunny happened to find out where we were and low and behold we found some Easter eggs hidden in the garden! Poor Zara is still to little to enjoy them so I had to force myself to have her share so that she could also enjoy them at her next meal ;~) Monday we had another lazy day relaxing before heading home again on Tuesday.

The one toothed Angel

After weeks of constantly being asked if Zara is "teething" due to the copious amounts of drool pouring from her mouth, last Thursday I was finally convinced that yes, indeed, there may be a tooth in sight. We were on our way back to Hilton after visiting Grandpa at the hospital when I noticed at white line, pretty much like a tooth....Wow! could this be, all of 5 and a half months old???

Later that afternoon, she had a bit of a temperature but nothing too hectic, so I was now pretty sure we were going to be boasting the new tooth to all the family in Natal. On Friday morning I had a look again but the tooth was GONE! I know that this can happen - apparently teeth can come up and down for weeks on end before they eventually cut through. So with all the other goings on we soon enough forgot about the "almost tooth". Then on Monday when she had a bit of a runny tum and a bit of a temperature again, I suspected that this may be the allusive tooth again. Not wanting to get too excited, I didn't say anything to Chris and just let her be. The this morning I had a look in her mouth and low and behold there it was.... the very first teeny tiny tooth!

Well done Zara! You are just too clever and have you have truly been so good humoured about this, I can only hope you'll pop out all your teeth as easily as this first one.

(maybe the amber teething necklace she has been wearing for the past few weeks really does make a difference????)

Once a girl.....

Once a girl, always a girl....

Today I bought Zara a pair of shoes. While I was standing in the queue to pay for them, she was already tugging at the bag trying to pry them away from me. Then while in the car I gave them to her to keep her entertained but when we got home, she was fast asleep but definitely not letting me take them away from her. So much for diamonds being a girls best friend - I think it's more likely going to be a case of following in her Mom ,Grannyannie & uncle, Dion's footsteps, with sure signs of a shoe fetish setting in.

Sad Farewell

Today we went off to save our "goodbyes" to Chris, Serife and baby Teo. Serife and I met through preggi yoga and got re-acquainted after our babies were born through Sharon's bumps & babes mornings. Teo is 3 weeks older than Zara..... Serife and I sometimes took the kids walking around Zoo Lake and recently Teo and Zara have been able to "socialise" with each other. This afternoon it was so sweet seeing them interacting with each other, holding hands, feeling each others gums/teeth etc

Sadly (for us) they have chosen to relocate back to London. It will be much nicer for them as a family as Chris will have far less traveling to do, and in turn have a lot more time with his family, however we are going to miss them a lot!